The five particle families to learn first
은/는 marks the topic or contrast. 이/가 commonly marks the grammatical subject. 을/를 marks the object of an action. 에 and 에서 both relate to places but do different jobs. 로/으로 often shows direction, means, or method.
저 + 는: topic
비 + 가: subject
커피 + 를: object
Why particles change shape
Several particles come in pairs. The choice depends on whether the preceding noun ends in a final consonant (받침). After a consonant, use 은, 이, 을, and 으로. After a vowel, use 는, 가, 를, and 로. 로/으로 has one important exception: after ㄹ, use 로.
서울 ends in ㄹ, so use 로.
A better way to practice
Do not practice particles only as isolated pairs. Put them into short sentences and ask what role the noun has. If the meaning is ambiguous, adding the right particle can make the intended relationship much clearer.
Particles that do not change after batchim
Not every particle comes in a consonant/vowel pair. 도 (also), 만 (only), and the conversational connector 하고 (and/with) keep the same shape after any noun. This is useful because you can focus on meaning instead of pronunciation.
도 stays the same after 저.
만 stays the same after 물.
A quick particle decision checklist
First identify the noun and the verb. Then ask whether the noun is the topic, the subject, the object, a destination, or the place where an action happens. Only after that should you choose the batchim form. Meaning comes before sound.
Natural conversation sometimes omits a particle when the role is already obvious, but omission is not a shortcut for every sentence. Beginners usually learn more by building the complete form first and noticing later where native speech safely leaves something out.
The same place has a different role with each verb.
The noun is the subject in the first sentence and the object in the second.